Thursday, April 21, 2016

Spring Evenings


Loving these longer days where we are out and about well into the evening.


This weekend we went to see a show at a theater for families.  We were "subscribers" this year so this was our last show of the year.


The boys loved all of the shows, which were equally engaging for parents.


Now that its light and warm in the evenings after the shows it's nice to be able to stop in Bryant Park before getting on the train for a waffle, perhaps the best part of all.

Wednesday, April 20, 2016

Competitor


Waiting for the vault, his first event 
He's ready
 Freddie participated in his first gymnastic competition.  It was fairly low key, as it was just the students from a few gymnastics programs.




He did have to be there at 7.30 am which is pretty rough for a Saturday morning!

Ready signal to the judge



He was nervous, but excited.






He made friends quickly with kids from other gyms which I think helped settle his nerves.



He did better than I expected.  He only goes to the gym once a week, and many of the other boys are there multiple days.

Waiting for results
But he didn't medal.  Which was tough.  I wasn't prepared for his disappointment.  He was a good sport and held back his tears until we were in private and then he held me tightly and had a good cry.  I couldn't help but cry as well.  It sure hurts to see him hurt.

holding back tears with his participation ribbon

Definitely a life lesson.  I should have known better and prepared him for it.  My boy has chosen individual sports, swim and gymnastics, where one or two kids usually walk away with all the accolades.

   

I'm proud of him for getting out there, and I hope fear of losing doesn't keep him from participating.

Tuesday, April 19, 2016

Voted!


In the hallway of school after voting!

I love that we are able to walk to our polling site here in NYC.  I love that it is in the boys' school and they are able to come along.  I love the signs directing folks to the polling place in English, Spanish, and Chinese.  I love discussing democracy and American history with the boys.

Play Ball!

Hans practicing

Hans wasn't interested in going to baseball this weekend.  "Baseball's boring."  Yep, I have to agree.  But it was a sunny, warm spring day so it was hard to not enjoy just being outside.

Freddie


For finding baseball boring, Hans really seemed to enjoy himself.  He got out there with his team without any prodding and literally smiled the whole time.




I'm thankful to have both boys on the same team this year.  I'm not sure I could have taken an all day at the baseball field seeing two different games. I imagine this will be the only year I get away with sticking them both in the kindergarten league.


 Looking forward to the rest of the season! (And I think Hans is too!)

Monday, April 18, 2016

Rider

Hans is on the go.  On two wheels!

He learned to ride without his training wheels a while back but is finally confident and able to start on his own.  He's been pretty determined to do it al on his own.  He is adamant that he doesn't want any help.  His stubbornness pays off in the end.

We have a 40 mile family bike ride coming up.  Looking forward to all of us pedaling.

Wednesday, April 13, 2016

A Night at the Theater




The night after a big snowstorm, perhaps our only snow storm this winter, we had tickets to see Aladdin on Broadway.  The city was pretty much shut down, Times Square was quiet, and we ventured out with our snow boots to see a show.

Times Square was empty!

After having taken Freddie to see The Lion King, he asked to see other shows and I wanted to take Hans as well.  Luckily I was able to score 2 for 1 tickets during Broadway week.


There is so much to do and see here, but it comes at a cost.  I'd say theater is one of those experiences that's worth it.  Even for 4 and 6 year olds.


Both boys loved the show, but Freddie will tell you he enjoyed The Lion King more.  Writing this post several month slater, I can tell you that Hans enjoyed it, understood it, and has told people about it which for some reason surprises me every time.  They pay attention a lot more than I think.  I knew the show being so visually stimulating would hold his attention, but he can reference the story and talk to people about it in greater detail than I had imagined.


The next Broadway Week rolls around in September.  I'm not sure which tickets I'll go for this time, but we'l take advantage of the deals once again.  Any suggestions?


Tuesday, April 12, 2016

Freddie at 7


Loving... You continue to be a lover of almost everything.  You want to try everything, do everything, meet everyone.  You're game for trying every sport or activity and more often than not you give rave reviews about everything you try.  You still love going to school, and you are excited to get to swim, gym, the playground as soon as school lets out.  As for school, you love all of your subjects.  I'm not sure you'd pick a single favorite.  You love to be around people and part of the action.



Hating... Well, I can't think of a person or a thing that you hate.  You're still not too fond of vegetables.  But really, can't think of much else you hate.  Oh, maybe getting your fingernails trimmed?




Eating... You can be a big eater at times.  You are very physically active, so your appetite has picked up.  You like meat.  A lot.  Even eating more meat and fewer carbs at many meals.  You'l eat most fruit, but still shy away from most vegetables.  You never pass up a cheeseburger.






Reading....You are reading at about a 4th grade level these days.  Pretty impressive.  Many of the nuances of fiction on that reading level go over your head, but you can devour nonfiction at that level.  Books abut animals are your favorite, but you'll sit for hours reading and flipping through books.  I love watching you at the library wander through the shelves, pulling several books, and then finding a spot on the floor to spend some time with your stack.  You'll also do this at night after I've kissed you goodnight.  I always smile hearing the light on your bed click on as I shut your bedroom door.


Writing...  Your writing is great.  Your spelling is not!  You enjoy writing and really get into it, adding lots of details.  I'm not quite sure what to say about your spelling.  Careless maybe?  I suppose we had better work on your proofreading skills.




Drawing... Quite often I find you at the little table in the living room with your art box and a stack of papers creating.  You love to draw and often make pictures for dad and me, usually pictures of our family.  You still want to take art classes, something I feel badly for not having done for you yet.  I can't stomach the $50-60 per class price tag in NYC.  I hope your interest continues and you always feel the desire to create.


Doing....You are a busy kid!  Right now you are doing a whole lot of swimming.  Since joining the swim team your hours at the pool have increased to 1.5 hours 3 days a week and then an additional hour on the weekend.  And even then you ask to just go to the pool to play!  You're also still in gymnastics and little league and spring soccer are about to begin.  You're also very interested in spending time with your friends, wanting to plan playdates at every opportunity.




Talking about.... Sometimes I have to look at you and make sure I am talking to a seven year old not a 13 year old!  You like to tell me how "awesome" things were or how "so funny" everything is.  You have these long stories about things that happen with your friends, complete with hand gestures and facial expressions that include head shaking and eye rolling.


Singing... You're not so much of a singer as you are a dancer.  I catch you shimmying around the living room whenever we have music on.  You love to listen to the street musicians, and the head starts  bopping any time we hear a tune.



Wearing....You're  a size 6-7, moved into the"big boy" sizing.  You're not particular abut what you wear, but you do like athletic clothing.  You also like to dress up and be told ho handsome you look.









Watching....Wild Kratts is still a favorite, but lately you're turning on Odd Squad, Ready Jet Go, and Nature Cat.  You are pretty independent with he television and remote these days, navigating through Netflix and the PBS app to on the apple TV to find just what you (or Hans!) want.  You still aren't too keen on movies, much preferring 30 minute shows.  I think the drama involved in the longer story lines of movies is a bit much for your very developed sensitive side!





Sleeping....You get in bed each night about 8.30 and it is very difficult to wake you at 7.15 for school. Some nights you stay up for 30 or so minutes reading and some nights you fall right to sleep.  You can sleep past 9 on the weekends!  Not sure what the teenage years will bring.  And he's still sleeping with Tigey.  Even takes him out to the couch to cuddle many mornings.






 Feeling.... So sensitive!  But quite confident, thankfully.  You are also pushing for more and more independence. You take care of your friends and your bother (for the most part).  You are very empathetic.








Learning....  The usual 1st grade stuff, but in swimming you're learning to do turns underwater.  In gymnastics you're learning routines with each apparatus and floor exercises.  That floor routine is challenging.






Wanting....a phone and an iPad.  And I can hardly believe Dad and I are seriously discussing your getting both of these this year.  You'll be out and about on your own heading to and from the pool in the fall so a phone makes sense.  And the iPad?  Well, you really want an eReader, but an iPad may be a better all around option.  You know you need to demonstrate responsibility and maturity to get a phone or an iPad and its obvious that you've been trying extra hard to keep organized and keep track of all of your gear and supplies.  You're a mature 7 year old!



I love you, Freddie.  I love reflecting on all these things and how your growing and changing each year.  I'm proud of you.