Hansie is night time potty trained. Whew. It's been a process that has been in the works since the fall. He'd been wanting to drop the night time diaper and so did we.
He's
been potty trained for over two years. I can hardly believe that! And while we have seen some dry diapers here and there, for the most part, he's never had any long stretches of dry diapers in the morning. Just like Freddie, one day he pretty much said he wasn't wearing a diaper any longer. But when Freddie did it, it only took a week of wet sheets before he was able to go all night. This wasn't the case with Hans. Everyone kept telling me he'd one day wake up dry and we could move on. But things just weren't that easy.
He started taking his diaper off during the night which was problematic. He'd also get really, REALLY angry if he went to bed sans diaper but woke up to find someone had diapered his bum sometime during the night. We tried piddle pads and calling diapers "night time underwear" but the kid wasn't buying it.
We tried taking him to the toilet midway through the night, and while that meant dry sheets in the morning, it just wasn't sustainable. Charlie was waking sometime during the night and rousing Hans out of bed to get him to the toilet. No one was getting a good night's sleep, everyone was grouchy, and we needed another fix.
Finally, we decided it was time to commit to the bed wetting alarm. We couldn't continue to wash sheets each day, we couldn't wake up in the middle of the night, and diapers just weren't an option any longer.
Within three days Hans went from wetting twice a night to once a night. By the 14th day his body was trained. He would wake, go to the toilet, and go back to bed. By the 20th day he was sleeping through the night without having to get up. Amazing!
The alarm has a little sensor that is clipped to his undies and when wet it sets off an alarm. Theoretically the alarm gets you up and to the potty. Hans tried very, very hard to roll over and sleep through the alarm. Charlie and I would have to shake him and help him up and to the toilet. One of us slept in the room with him for the first few weeks because it was just easier to help him if right next to him. Also, I think he was more inclined to wake me or Charlie to ask for help to go to the bathroom if we were just a few feet away rather than in another room. So, there was work involved beyond hooking him up, but certainly worth it.
He'll wear the alarm for another several weeks to prevent him from slipping back into wetting. I think his knowing the alarm is on and if he wets he'll have to get up means he just assume get up and out of bed before the thing starts going off.
We happily gave away the last stash of diapers, at his request, to a baby we know. Just knowing there were diapers in the closet irked him, so he was happy to pack them off and drop them off somewhere else.
Although milestones tend to be bittersweet with the "last baby," reaching this one is quite a relief!